Several weeks ago, I became a mom to a four-year-old. Oliver had really been looking forward to his birthday. There were several things leading up to it -- he started soccer, for example -- and so it really only got talked about for a few days before. Unlike last year, Oliver seemed to understand a little better what it meant to have a birthday. He has also been to a lot of birthday parties recently, though, ones at inflatable bounce houses and indoor play spaces, so his idea of a birthday is actually a birthday
party, and one that is fairly grandiose for what usually happens around our house.
On the day of his birthday, he wore his four shirt -- which has room for him to grow. We took pictures, and he went off to school. I ran errands in the morning, then picked him up for lunch, and we had a mom-son meal in the lunchroom at my office space. Faculty and friends came by and wished him a happy birthday. He went back to school for nap, after which time he shared cupcakes I'd taken with his friends for snack.

After school, I picked him and Emme up the stroller with balloons tied to it. Oliver thought it was great. We even walked by the daycare so his friends could see. We got home to find Grammy Kay already there. Dinner was macaroni and cheese, fruit, applesauce, with a cookies-and-cream ice cream cake for dinner. Oliver had been saying for a week that he wanted Cookie Monster (sometimes Elmo) and Snow White on his cake. I genuinely have no idea how he even knows who Snow White
is. But I went with it, found pictures of each online, printed them off, and added them to his cake.

We sang, he blew out the candles, we all ate, and he was soon ready for presents. He got a new baseball cap from Grammy Kay (the old one having been "retired" because it smelled so bad, something repeated cleanings could not longer remedy) and a book with edible worms from his Gandpa John. He got a very cool card from his Uncle George and Aunt Karen. It had a birthday cake inside. When he blew in a special place, the candles blew out and the card sang "Happy Birthday to You." It was a
big hit with both him and Emme. He got his first big-boy Legos from his Uncle Adam, Aunt Jennifer, and cousins Dylan and Reece. "Emme" gave him a fire truck. And from mom and dad he got a LeapPad 2 (like an iPad for kids, but cheaper, more durable, and no web surfing). I had it already loaded, ready to go, and he's used it a lot since.
After dinner and a bath, Oliver got measured in the closet, where we've marked his growth since his first birthday. I can't remember exactly, but he's grown about three inches since last year. He's four years old in size 5/6 clothes (with some room to grow into them over the course of the winter).
It wasn't at a bounce house or a play space, but Oliver clearly loved his birthday. He keeps asking when he's going to turn five and seems really disappointed to hear it's almost a full year from now. I think this age might be my favorite for birthdays. It doesn't take a whole lot (of money at least) for them to get
really excited, and they just enjoy it so thoroughly without the letdown afterward of life returning to normal.